If you can love happiness

My friend is lovelorn. I really don’t know how to comfort her, but she is stronger than I thought. She said, I am lovelorn, but I am fine now. I thought quietly, can I concentrate deeply when I love, but can I be light when I leave? I think she hides her love very well, or the pain after love. When you are lonely, you can look for support, but you can’t be promiscuous. What is worth believing is that destined fate will come one day you don’t know, and the person who is really worth waiting for will exist in your memory for a lifetime. If you can let go, it will be hard to forget forever. It will make you feel full of happiness when you think of it. So I want to say that what deserves your attention is happiness. Recently, I read a novel, whose content is quite wonderful. It mentioned a movie called “a letter from a strange woman”. I was very moved after reading it. The content is roughly like this: I will not miss because of loneliness, nor will I be lonely because of missing. Just because I miss, I will not be lonely. Missing, let you and my life connect… the tragedy of youth is not pain, but happiness; The sadness of love is not injury, but baptism. All the cruelty I have done to me is precisely because that day, under the sunny morning light, your warm smile hit the spark in my heart, this is a sad and beautiful love story. On her deathbed, the heroine sent her dedicated love for her whole life to a writer by letter, however, the person she loved did not know the situation of the woman who loved him all his life until he died. The heroine’s love of meeting by chance made her cherish her whole life. From her initial unrequited love, At the end of the fall, they have never changed their mind to their lovers, just like moths to the fire, and they are firm in love. Her focus has nothing to pay back, but she is happy, because she has never felt how unworthy it is to love a man she has never expressed. The love hidden in the bottom of my heart is not cut off by the passage of time, but more and more to the bottom of my heart. I have seen such similar love with my own eyes. Obviously, people around me will not say good things, but they are still so stubborn. Even if they are indifferent, she will still put all her eggs in one basket, love to go straight ahead. Later, I realized that if it is destined to be separated one day, I should be happy before misfortune. Because there is such a thing that deserves your attention and meets your inner feelings unexpectedly, you will not regret what you have done is right or wrong. As long as you are happy and know how to love, there are no regrets that you can’t get. I used to love listening to the lyrics of Chen Xiang’s song “Tibet”. I often forget it, but the melody is very beautiful. But now I suddenly feel too sentimental: Loneliness is beyond defense. Repeated visits are like thorns. If you accidentally nail them to your heart, why do you force yourself to enjoy them alone. If one day you can’t be lonely because of missing, you must learn to be strong and grow up. Later, I want to say again, cherish the present, is happiness. In the broadcast, there was a special program that discussed the topic of online literature. Somehow the host told a story in an online novel: Once upon a time, there was a spider, A net was made on the beam of the Buddhist Hall. Due to the edification of the incense of the Buddhist Hall and the influence of the Buddhist scriptures, this spider has spirituality. When a thousand years passed, Buddha suddenly came and asked her: you have practiced here for a thousand years. What do you think of happiness? Spiders are used to seeing good men and women. Past visitors pray Buddha front and say without thinking: They have not got it and have lost it. Buddha smiled and left. After another thousand years, Buddha came again and asked the same question, but the spider still insisted without changing its mouth: it has not been obtained and has been lost. Buddha shook his head and left again. A thousand years passed again in a blink of an eye. One day, a gust of wind blew a drop of Kahlua onto the spider’s web. The spider looked at Kahlua heart with love. But the Kahlua they didn’t want soon disappeared. Then Buddha appeared again and asked her: what do you think happiness is now? The spider felt lost and sighed and said, “I have not got it, I have lost it. Buddha looked at her sad and distressed appearance and said: It seems that you still don’t understand what happiness is, then you can go to the world and have a walk. After that, the spider will be reborn to the world, she was lucky to be a miss named Pearl in a big family. When she was 16 years old, she met the man who made her enamored, Ganlu, from then on, Pearl decided that he would marry this man, but he didn’t expect Ganlu to be very cold to her all the time. Soon after, Pearl suddenly learned that she was given a marriage, but the other party was the Prince Sesame, while Ganlu was recruited as the horse of Princess Changfeng. Pearl couldn’t stand the blow and killed herself. After hearing this, Sesame grass held her corpse in a painful runny nose: Pearl, from the first time I saw you, I liked you and begged my father to marry, but I didn’t expect you to commit suicide, I knew you loved Ganlu so deeply that I am wouldn’t force you to marry me… Pearl’s soul was moved to see this scene out of the body. At this time, Buddha appeared beside her and said: in fact, ganlu (Kahlua) has never belonged to you. He was brought by the long wind, but the sesame grass is a grass under your net. I have been admiring you for 3,000 years, but you never looked down at him. Now you understand what happiness is? As a spider, she sighed and said: cherish what is in front of her is happiness. The host finished the story and said that she cried after reading the story. How many people are willing to pay for you in a person’s life, who will never regret and wait until death; How many people are willing to pay back in a person’s life, a long river of love, only drink a scoop of concentration. If the lost path of love makes you lose your way, will you also have a day of repentance, a happy hand to hold your son and grow old with your son. The sadness of love, it is rare to keep the cloud and see the Moon Ming; The craziness of love, it is rare that three thousand dotes are integrated. So please thank you for the days of love and the happiness of love. Not because of the things that have changed over time, not because of the ignorance and understanding of the things that have not been opened sinus, not because of the prosperity, the dust is gone, just for the happiness of giving, just for the happiness of having. If you can love happiness…..

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