Love you, but not near you

In the feelings between men and women, if one obeys the call of sensibility from the bottom of his heart, while the other obeys his will from the persistence of reason, the love generated by these two factors, there are no mistakes. This may be the so-called fate and self-emotional value orientation. Because in this lasting war, only men and women participated in the war. No matter who wins or loses, they cannot be determined by failure and victory. People are surrounded by love from the moment they are born. All my life, I have been in the twining of love, some of which really cannot escape, including family affection, friendship and love. This kind of emotion has given us countless warmth, but it also gives people endless pain. Therefore, as long as everyone is Frends in his heart, he is doomed to wander between constant gain and loss, and to choose between chasing and giving up. Ten years ago, he graduated from the undergraduate course. He was transferred to an ideal work unit with versatile and handsome sunshine. After reporting to the personnel department, he was arranged to work as an assistant in a department. On the first day of work, she held a morning meeting and sat side by side with the beautiful young Qian in an empty position on the right of the three rows. Hui couldn’t help looking at Qian for a few more eyes because her eyes were particularly beautiful, after Qian was seated, Chong Hui nodded slightly, which was to say hello to him. Hui suddenly felt that he was a little out of state. He hurried to avoid the friendly look and responded with a smile. At that moment, there was a kind of ripple surging in Hui’s heart. From that moment on, he began to pay attention to everything about Qian. Later, he learned that Qian was five years older than himself and had a family, a three-year-old daughter and a husband who loved her, in the unit, he found Qian was particularly popular and warm and modest to people. Her face was always smiling and her eyes were particularly bright. From her decent dress and light and elegant manner, she felt that she was a little woman surrounded by happiness, but all this did not prevent Hui from paying attention to her as usual, but he never approached her. Only when working overtime, he would help Qian with his colleagues. Later, they gradually became familiar with each other. Qian began to introduce his girlfriend to him, But he always turned it down for various reasons. There were many beautiful female staff in the unit who liked him very much, but they were all declined by Hui politely. Gradually, people talked about it in private, and all kinds of suspicion came one after another, but this did not change Hui’s idea. Many years have passed, and due to outstanding performance, Hui soon got improved. At the celebration party, someone asked why Hui didn’t find a girlfriend, and he said fate hasn’t arrived yet. After the rest, everyone went home. He quietly told Qian to wait for a while, because Qian’s home was near the hotel, so Qian Hehui came out of the hotel at the same time. On the way home to Qian, hui told her that she had always liked her, and Qian suddenly looked up and met the meaningful eyes of Hui. She was surprised that this man who had been regarded as his younger brother in her heart should say such a thing. Maybe in order not to let her bear a heavy burden, he said; You don’t have to say anything, I know your situation, to be exact, this kind of love is just my personal wishful thinking, but I will not disturb your life, just watching you in the distance, please remember to I am your best friend, as long as you live happier than me is the biggest wish. The days are simple and repetitive, without sadness or happiness. Ten years later, Hui still did not have a family and Qian still lived happily. Others speculated that Hui might have a phobia of marriage and suggested that he go to see a psychologist. Only he knew that he had already been unable to extricate herself and planted her in his heart. Ten years of time has reached an important position. In these years, many people of the same age have become fathers, and young people have entered the siege one after another. He is the only one, I also watched the scenery leisurely outside the city. She never disturbed her life and kept an irreplaceable position for her in his heart. In his opinion, almost no one can enter his life any more. In fact, everyone knows in his heart that there are some ups and downs in his life. He is destined to face and bear them alone. What can save you is often yourself. Most of the time, what they care about is not forever, not forever. But the burning passion and heartbreaking encounter. Some people say that amorous feelings are a kind of poison hidden in the deep heart. If you drink it without paying attention, people will sink in pain for a lifetime. However, compared with amorous people, infatuated people are more dedicated. Although it is often impossible to get a return after giving, and although the desired dream can never draw a perfect end, they have retained eternal happiness in their own world. In this life, who can hide from the bitter sea of feelings? Who can guarantee the whole body to the other side? However, if you really love, you can’t stay together because of worldly fetters, because you must give up when you meet late, and even you can never express yourself because you can’t bear innocent people being hurt, love is always at the beginning, and the heart always has an expectation. Maybe there is a kind of desire and pursuit before dreams come true, in fact, it is an ultimate happiness. Sometimes it is easier to be intoxicated than real ownership. A poet said: the attitude of life determines the quality of life. Luck and misfortune are all your own choices. Reject those invitations of life, cross countless possibilities of happiness, enrich yarakai heart, and only want to wait for a call. Although that call may come to the end of life, it will not ring gently in the ear, just because of a simple love word, it will entangle many deep joys and sorrows in the rolling red dust. Because life is a fickle fate, and only because of the fickle elements of human nature, there is no absolutely perfect emotion and no absolutely perfect ending in this world. Between this emotion and the emotion, it always hurts another person. Emotion is a double-edged sword. No matter how good it is, it will inevitably not hurt yourself or others. Spoony people would rather hurt themselves, choose between, know how to complete. Therefore, in such a struggle, many people chose to calmly look at the waves in their hearts. Hide deep tenderness in light care, and like to sink the painful lovesickness alone. People always have to go through countless painful cycles before they gradually understand that there is always a kind of love that is doomed to not be completely possessed. Because of defects, in this materialistic reality, how many infatuated people can still carry out perfect love to the end by keeping such a distant trance, how many people are indifferent to the infatuation? How many people keep the unknown love remorseless? Is this a modern version of the legendary fate? All of this, I was moved at the same time, but I still can’t judge whether such a love view of life for love can be called a moving place! Postscript: love needs preparation and creation, rather than suffering or sticking to it with a infatuation. This kind of spirit is certainly commendable, but the more this is, the more heavy the burden will be placed on the loved ones and their conscience will be tortured, so that the other party can not easily pursue what they love. From the perspective of human nature; Infatuation is losing life. Some people say that love is only an episode in life, not the only thing in life, let alone the whole of life. Life is always higher than love.

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